The Essence of You.

A podcast that explores who we are beyond our labels.

Who are you when you take away the job title, the roles, the labels, and just be?

Through intimate, unscripted conversations with host, Steph Lokelani, The Essence of You Podcast dives deep into the core of the human experience with people from all walks of life.

New episodes release every Friday, with guests whose stories are as unique as the outfits they choose to wear, because yes, this is both a video AND audio podcast.

Do you have a story to share? I'd love to hear it. Tell me a little bit about you and let's get you in an episode!

Teaching, Theater, and Lifelong Friendships with Angela Ocheltree

Steph Lokelani

Published on: 09/04/2026

Steph Lokelani reunites with Angela Ocheltree, the oldest friend she's had on the podcast to date, for a warm, funny catch-up that doubles as a time capsule.

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The Actor Behind the Mask: Chance Fuerstinger on Craft & Identity

Steph Lokelani

Published on: 07/24/2026

Actor, writer, filmmaker, and acting teacher Chance Fuerstinger joins Steph Lokelani for a conversation that moves from the craft of storytelling to the harder work of understanding yourself.

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Puzzles, Purpose, & The Best Job Ever with Joey Maxey

Steph Lokelani

Published on: 07/17/2026

Joey Maxey wears a lot of hats - actor, filmmaker, dancer, cosplayer, and host of the vintage jigsaw puzzle YouTube channel Janky Puzzles. But ask him what he's proudest of, and he'll tell you it's his job as an elementary school janitor.

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The Creative Human: Art, Soul Purpose, and AI Manipulation

Steph Lokelani

Published on: 05/15/2026

Steph Lokelani sits down with her friend, Tiffany Eller, for a warm, wide-ranging, and deep conversation that covers theater debuts, dream interpretation, personal mission statements, soul contracts, and AI.

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